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It’s No Go for Planned Christmas ‘Gay Party’

Police rejects licence, saying event is likely to be a gay party and is against public interest

Straits Times, December 9, 2004

By Tanya Fong

A CHRISTMAS party, organised for the past two years by local subsidiary of a Hong Kong-based gay online portal, has had its licence application for this year’s party turned down.

Police rejected the application for the SnowBall.04 indoor party, which was to be held at the Warehouse disco on Havelock Road over Christmas weekend, saying ‘the event is likely to be organised as a gay party which is contrary to public interest’.

The application was put up by Jungle Media, the same company that organised Nation.04 in August.

Jungle Media is a Singapore subsidiary of Hong Kong-based fridae.com—the largest online gay portal in the region.

In a statement to the media, the police said they had approved parties such as Nation.04 after receiving assurance that the events would not be ‘organised as gay parties’.

However, they said they noticed people of the same gender ‘seen openly kissing and intimately touching each other’ during the party.

The police also said some patrons were using toilets meant for the opposite sex, ‘suggesting that most of the patrons were probably gays or lesbians and that the event was almost exclusively for them’.

These ‘openly gay acts’ at the Nation.04 ball also provoked several complaints from other patrons.

Said the police: ‘The police recognise that there are some Singaporeans with gay tendencies. While the police do not discriminate against them on this basis, we recognise that Singapore is still, by and large, a conservative and traditional society.’

They have promised to scrutinise applications for any similar events in the future.

The police Public Entertainment Licence Unit (Pelu) has granted licences for the last three Nation parties, which were held in parallel to the National Day holiday celebrations. This year’s SnowBall, usually held in December, would have been the third.

Chief executive officer of fridae. com Stuart Koe said it was shocked by the rejection as it has ‘had a very congenial working relationship with Pelu and various police jurisdictions’ for all their past events.

Mr Koe said: ‘Our events are known to be extremely professionally organised and have earned both domestic, as well as international acclaim. Nation.04 attracted 8,000 participants.

‘In a study commissioned by the Singapore Tourism Board, Nation.04 was estimated to have generated $10 million in tourism revenue.’

In response to the rejection, Mr Koe e-mailed an appeal letter to Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong last night, asking the authorities to reconsider their decision.

The letter was also copied to Home Affairs Minister Wong Kan Seng, the police and the Attorney-General Chan Sek Keong.


No Reason to Scuttle ‘Gay Party’

Straits Times Forum, December 11, 2004

I refer to the article, ‘It’s no go for planned Christmas ‘gay party’ (ST, Dec 9). By rejecting the application for a licence to hold the party, the police are over-reaching their authority.

The police said they noticed kissing and intimate touching involving people of the same gender in previous events held by the organiser.

If the degree of kissing and embracing is no different from any greeting or affection shown at other parties such as ZoukOut, then the police have no grounds to cite such a reason and still say that ‘they do not discriminate’.

In any case, it is not against the law to embrace or kiss someone of the same sex, nor to cross-dress, another observation cited.

If the police had felt these were against the law, why didn’t they arrest those persons on the spot there and then?

If they felt they had no powers to arrest them, as these acts are not against the law, then why cite it as a reason to reject an application?

Overall, the police seem to be saying that any party that caters to the gay minority is now banned, based on the hoary excuse of ‘public interest’ and that of a ‘traditional and conservative society’.

These phrases contradict their ‘do not discriminate’ claim. They are inconsistent with a society hoping to move forward.

I will be interested to see if the same excuses are invoked when the time comes to approve the setting up of a casino.

Alex Au Waipang


Police Did Right in Rejecting Gay Party

Straits Times, December 17, 2004
Forum Page

THE decision of the police not to give a licence for the Christmas ‘gay party’ planned by Fridae.com (‘It’s no go for planned Christmas ‘gay party’; ST, Dec 9), as this undermines the public interest, is to be strongly commended.

Given the alarming Aids epidemic Singapore is facing, any event which would threaten to aggravate this problem and endanger the public health cannot be allowed.

The police noted in their press statement that they had noticed same-sex couples ‘openly kissing and intimately touching each other’ during other Fridae.com-organised events. Furthermore, they noted that the use by patrons of toilets meant for the opposite sex suggested most patrons were ‘probably gays or lesbians and that the event was almost exclusively for them’.

As Straits Times Senior Writer Andy Ho noted recently: ‘It is homosexuals who engaged in condomless anopenetrative sex that are culpable of spreading HIV in Singapore’, causing the ‘second wave of HIV here and worldwide’.

To facilitate or allow such activities to carry on unchecked would constitute a gross breach of the public trust and be highly irresponsible. The Aids problem cannot be ignored.

Blatant flaunting of homosexual activities is offensive to the conservative mainstream which wants to see enduring standards of public decency and morality upheld—it would be regressive to allow this to degenerate.

It is heartening to read that the police authorities will be scrutinising applications for similar future events with an eye to protecting the health of our nation and our social well-being. Such vigilance warrants the nation’s gratitude and thanks.

Thio Su Mien (Dr)


Misconceptions of HIV And Double Standards

[Unpublished response from Singapore to the above letter]

I am writing in reply to Dr Thio Su Mien letter dated Dec 17 2004, “Police did right in rejecting gay party”

The reader supported the police rejection of Snowball Party because she believes that such parties upset mainstream conservative values.

In creating a modern gracious society that tolerates diversity, including sexual minorities, Singaporeans need to resist and reject the mindset of “mainstream conservative values” and apply it to everyone.

Just consider this scenario. If we pander to just the “conservatives” and not tolerate the other end of the spectrum, how then can our society flourish and convince the more liberal- minded citizens to contribute?

Readers need to note that the party aforementioned is a ticketed event, which is not susceptible to the general public. Hence, the people who are attending Snowball, is likely to know the party well and unlikely to be affronted by same sex intimate behaviour. In such a situation, it is highly questionable that the average conservative Singaporean will witness any conduct that they find morally offensive.

Moreover, Fridae.com has successfully applied permits during the past few years for similar parties without any fanfare. This rejection creates doubts as to the consistency and type of standards that PELU applies to, especially with regards to large-scale events.

Dr Toh also commented that such parties encourage same sex behaviour which indirectly contributes to the HIV epidemic.

According to the Ministry of Health website, of the 138 cases reported in the first 6 months of this year, 132 cases acquired the infection through the sexual route with heterosexual transmission accounting for 65%, homosexual transmission at 23% and bisexual transmission at 8%.

It is erroneous to believe that gays are the leading cause when the straight population is not immune to the epidemic as well.

Moreover, if we are to follow along her line of argument, we will need to close down all bars, nightclubs and pubs which sees some form of close interpersonal contact, be they straight or gay, as it will lead to the spreading of HIV.

This will however be unimaginable because we do not want a Singapore that imposes draconian restrictions on its citizens.

HIV can affect anyone and should not be discriminated based on a person’s sexuality. While conservative society promotes monogamity or in certain cases, sexual abstinence, such ideals are impractical and may backfire—Hence, it needs to be preached in moderation. That is why Action for AIDS, the only AIDS advocacy group in Singapore, encourages condom use.

If Singapore is intent on building an inclusive, gracious and tolerant society, the general public and mainstream conservatives will need to stop imposing their values and double standards on the other minorities.

Charles Tan, Singapore


Unpublished Letter from Germany

Dear Editor,

I REFER to the report “It’s no go for planned Christmas ‘gay party’” (ST, DEC 9).

I am a German national who has visited Singapore many times over the past ten years. Not for short 24-hour stopovers or hasty shopping sprees. Instead I have got to know your city-state more than just superficially, found long-lasting friendships there and learned a lot about your country, its cultural traditions and its impressive progress made over the past 40 years. So by following the discussions and what´s going on in Singapore, I dare to say I am not just a transient onlooker. In fact my affection (as I may call it) has grown to the point where I have started making business plans which would hopefully lead me to become a resident in your country. That of course involves a lot of considerations, there are investments to be made (tourism related) that in consequence would generate a very small but not negligible number of new jobs and in total a growth in revenue from tourism.

I am well aware of the ongoing discussions about “stayers” or “quitters” in your country, about “opening up or attract more foreign talent”. So when I am being asked by people here “Why would you want to invest in S´pore ?” I keep trying my best to describe Singapore to them as a far less straight-laced place, a way more liveable location in contrary to some long-lived stereotypes abroad. And indeed there have been significant changes and hopeful signs that talent and creativity has a chance to grow. I am optimistic, even in so-called conservative societies people will realise that in the long run a more diverse culture with an open flow or exchange of information, a place where fundamental civil rights are guaranteed, this all will bring benefit to the whole country and add to the dynamics of the economy.

This weeks news about the banning of a mostly gay dance event on Christmas of course was a severe blow to many hopes inside and outside of Singapore that the country is moving forward to become an all-embracing society where also gay people can celebrate parties as others can do. The reasons given in the Police statement are outright discriminatory against homosexuals. Signs of intimacy like exchanging hugs or kisses are not a crime as far as I know. I have always considered Singapore as a role model for creating a society where racial and religious harmony are not only hollow phrases. But harmony and tolerance are indivisible. The striving for an all-inclusive society where everybody counts and can partake also means to recognise that gay people can live a life in dignity. Lesbians, gays or trans-gendered people have always been there and are there to stay as your fellow countrymen and –women. They have contributed to Singapores headway. They are your neighbour, your national serviceman who defends your shores, your hospital nurse who cares for your loved ones when they fall sick, your MP from your constituency who works hard to make life better, your tv anchorman/-woman who you invite to your living room each night, they are your daughters and sons ! So I may ask, is this a sign of a matured, respectable society to deny the right to celebrate a party only because it´s an event for gay people (even if it´s only some party for a minority among the hundred thousands of gay Singaporeans)? I very much hope those in charge will repeal their decision for the sake of your countrys further development. I am alarmed by this ban, it has shattered my confidence to the point that I may have to scrutinise my own business plans. Creativity, motivation and entrepreneurial spirit can only grow in an open, vibrant society where everybody can play his or her part, where visitors are welcome and ... yes, ...where trivial leisure activities like going for a dance are possible for all.

Bernd LEUNIG Frankfurt, Germany


Unpublished Letter from Australia

Addressing the Government’s Failure to license Snowball and other anti gay actions of the Singapore Government

I write to express me disappointment in the recent decision made by the Police Service Licensing board. I had thought that perhaps Singapore was beginning to move towards recognition of the gay and lesbian communities in the city – state.

Senior Minister Lee and former Prime Minister Goh have made speeches that recognize the contributions of gay and lesbian (LBGTQI) people to the Singapore economy. The guarantee of equal rights and social justice for all people must be a goal of a civilized and open societies and governments. The appeals to authority, interpretations of an ancient scripture written thousands of years ago, and/or relying on a return to `traditional values’ do not advance the rights of the people or improve the state of the economy.

Singapore is reporting an increase in the number of HIV infections, and the Ministry of Health has put the blame on the gay male community for the increase. I believe that his attempts to resolve HIV/AIDS issues with blame and shame have no chance of success. The only real solution to the problem of increasing HIV/AIDS infections is through education and open discussions of sex and sexuality. Singapore must address the real issues of sexual conduct without blame and shame if you are to reduce the number and rate of infections.

Press reports indicate that the Police denied the application despite approving parties run by the sponsoring company in 2002, 2003, and 2004. What is different now? Reports tell of behaviors like same sex kissing and fondling as the reason. Might I suggest that Singapore and the rest of the world consider that love and sex might be preferable to the religious fundamentalists campaigns of discrimination, hate and bigotry.

The sky is not falling. Chicken Little is running amok yet again with predictions of doom and gloom. No where in the world where same sex relationships have been recognized has experienced a societal meltdown. Traditional marriage has not collapsed and no children have been recruited to be homosexual. The radical right plays on the most basic of fears. Hate is not a traditional value.

Singapore will lose many of her gay and lesbian citizens. If the discrimination continues and grown, people will simply leave and go to countries where homosexuality is a `non-event’. Singapore will suffer economic loss as tourism declines. Gays and lesbians will just avoid Singapore and go to other destinations.

I had thought that Singapore was moving forward in recognition of the basic human rights in concordance with the UN Declaration of Human Rights. If Singapore wishes to grow and prosper, discrimination must be eliminated and hate and bias banished from the country and the laws.

With regard from the land down under,

Henry W Collier, Honorary Fellow, University of Wollongong


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